Saturday, August 8, 2009

By Way of Explanation

My mother and I went to see Julie & Julia today. The movie was excellent and inspired a craving for French food and blog readership. Julie Powell started a blog, during the golden days of blogging, and ended up with a book and movie. She didn't even have Site Meter to verify her growing readership. But she ended up with thousands of followers who read her every word and yes, sent her gifts. Gifts. I can't imagine. Now it seems every good blog idea has been used up. Writing about going insane. Taken. Writing about how your kids lead to the insanity. Taken. Fashion, fitness, home organization and design. Done, done and done. I have racked my brain for a good hook. Something that will draw people in and keep them coming back. Something I could do for 365 days. People seem to love things involving "A Year of..." Or maybe that's just me. And that's when it hit me. Blogs are narcissistic shrines people build to worship at their own feet. Accusing a blogger of being self-absorbed is just repetitious. You have to possess at least a small fraction of healthy self esteem to write about yourself every day and to expect anyone to want to read it (more than once anyway). So I have decided to devote a whole year to myself. 365 days of why I am awesome. And I suppose I should care if people want to read about me (and I really do) but no matter what happens, at the end of the 365 days I will still be me. And I will always be awesome.

5 comments:

Lizzi said...

I love your subtitle! We bloggers have to be legends in our own minds. I'm anxious to see Julie And Julia. I have the book and would like to read it first, but there's fat chance of that happening.

Marie said...

You are so right:

"Blogs are narcissistic shrines people build to worship at their own feet. Accusing a blogger of being self-absorbed is just repetitious. You have to possess at least a small fraction of healthy self esteem to write about yourself every day and to expect anyone to want to read it (more than once anyway)."

I sent my blog to an old school chum, and she seemed horrified by what I was writing. She said she felt like a voyeur!! Some people just cannot fathom revealing themselves like we do in our blogs...but as I'm sure is true with you and Lizzi, I edit myself heavily. If I really wrote everything that came into my mind, I'd no doubt offend a fraction of my readers...

Even so, I have gotten into trouble a few times...

Jennifer said...

Thanks for the comments. You both seem to have a sense of humor about the whole blogging business and don't take yourselves too seriously. That's why I keep coming back. And Marie, I'm glad you speak your mind. It's your blog. If someone disagrees they can start their own blog. Everyone and their mother and dog has one these days.

L Harris said...

I have seen a blog for a dog! seriously!!!

I luv the new look! and the idea you have; take it and run with it! have fun.

Jennifer said...

Thanks for the support. I think I will enjoy just unashamedly talking about myself.

And I am always a little scared by blogs written by babies or animals.